Message from Don and Carol Cook

Carol and I were shocked to read this, we were looking at the Tullibee page to see if you were coming to the reunion. Gretchen, we offer our condolences, we have so many fond memories, the birthday balls, the card games, the New Years eve parties and the long ride to New London from Southwick/Westfield in the VW. We are so happy that we got to see you both at our clam bake and the reunion in Groton. We send our love and prayers to you, your sons and their families.

Message from tom allison MM1(SS)

Please excuse my late posting, however I wanted you to know that your loss was felt in northwestern PA. Collin and I served together on the Corporal '66-'68. His rant to Emily brought a smile in that we did make a couple northern runs and I can vouch for him seeing the lights of Murmansk through the scope. Wonderful memories of such a great shipmate.

Message from Mark & Cindy Arnstam

Dear Gretchen and Family,
We saw you both last in 2011 in Branson, MO at our last Tullibee reunion. Mark will ALWAYS remember Collin for his sense of humor and dedication to all the sailors on Mark's first submarine. Most importantly, Senior Chief Ingraham's likability as a leader, mentor and role model enabled him to stay NAVY and pass on the most important priority in a highly technical occupation..."our sailors". Seem to clearly remember Gretchen, as the COB's wife and Ombudsman, helping, aiding, guiding and simply being there for our young wives and girlfriends left behind while we were deployed for 6 months. Collins brave and expertly written last description of a life well lived with no regrets along with his picture will always be remembered and is stored forever in my minds "picture gallery". Our love to you Gretchen and the entire Ingraham Family.
Very respectfully,
Mark & Cindy Arnstam
LCDR, USN Ret. Submarines
Boise, Idaho

A candle was lit by Beth Joe Renaudette on May 20, 2017 12:42 AM

Message from Dave & Darlene Dvorak

Our prayers go out to Gretchen and the Ingraham family. I had the privilege to serve with Collin on the USS Tullibee, SSN 597, in the 70s. He was Chief of the Boat and loved and respected by all on board. He will be missed. Fair winds and following seas shipmate.

Message from Jan Wellspeak

So sad.................I will always remember your humor, just like your brother Jeff. Say hi to Jeff for ME. <3

Message from Jan Wellspeak

So sad.................I will always remember your humor, just like your brother Jeff. Say hi to Jeff for ME. <3

A candle was lit by Jan Wellspeak on May 19, 2017 8:04 AM

Message from Deb mccoy

I am so sorry to hear this. I will always remember the fun times.
Love you Gretchen

Message from Sue

To Gretchen, prayers to you and your wonderful family. I have so many memories from my childhood to now. Sunrise service breakfast gathered around your table. My life has somehow mingle with yours. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the wonderful memories you and Collin shared. He will be remembered by so many. You are loved. Sue

A candle was lit by Bill & Mary Lou Newth on May 18, 2017 2:03 PM

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Collin love you and miss you so much, you will never be forgotten, I promise I'll never tell what happened in the back room, the night we changed clothes. at the New Years Eve party. Thank you for all our wonderful memories together. And always remember,
( NEVER LET THE TRUTH GET IN THE WAY OF A GOOD STORY )
God Bless you, and your beautiful family. I promise that we will watch over the love of your life, along with about 100 other people. Fair winds & following seas.
Sail away.

Message from Deb & Jim MacAdam

Our hearts are broken, but with family, friends, memories, and hugs, each day we will mend. Rest in peace, my captain, oh captain.

A candle was lit by Deb & Jim on May 18, 2017 8:46 AM

Expression of Sympathy

A SPATHIPHYLLUM was sent on May 18, 2017

Our sincere condolences. JD, Debbie, And Jared Ward (Rachel's Family)

Message from Kathy Kennison Erno

Gret, Mike and Todd and your families, Collin was one amazing man,wonderful husband, and outstanding father and grandfather, I know he will be missed by so many. Wish I could have seen more of all of you through the years. I will always remember him with love and remember all the memories that were made while I lived in Ma. All my thoughts love and prayers are with you at this sad time.<3

A candle was lit by Amy Martin Getty on May 17, 2017 4:38 PM

Message from Dick & Dolly Painchaud

Collin, we shared vacations, adventures, cigars and countless bottles of wine. Our lives are richer for having spent time with you and we will miss you. Save us a spot on the taffrail.