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Official Obituary of

Neil S. Wheeler, Sr.

August 11, 1928 ~ March 28, 2025 (age 96) 96 Years Old
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Neil Wheeler, Sr. Obituary

Neil S Wheeler Sr, 96, previously of Huntington MA, passed away peacefully on March 28, surrounded by his loving family.

Neil was born August 11, 1928, to Charles and Viola (Stannard). He grew up in Chester, MA, joined the Merchant Marines at age 16, and later served in the USMC, 1st Marine Division. A skilled marksman, he was a small arms instructor at Parris Island, Quantico and the U.S. Naval Academy. He served in the Marines until 1952.

Neil was the American Legion District 2 Sergeant-at-Arms and a member of the Forty and Eight veterans association. He instructed hilltown youth in the NRA Junior Rifle Club.

He served as Hampshire County Sheriff, town assessor, an elected Huntington Constable, and a Police Officer. He worked for Northeast Utilities for 30 years. He enjoyed a long retirement.

He was predeceased by sisters Murial and Phyllis, and brothers Allen, Bruce, and Charles Jr.

Neil is survived by Grace (Barr), his wife of 73 years; children Neil Wheeler Jr. and his wife Pat, Gary Wheeler and his wife Mary, Marie Pease and her husband Tim, Laurie O’Brien and her husband Clyde, and Bill Wheeler; 7 grandchildren and 13 great grandchildren; brother Robert Burkholder and his wife Mary, brother-in-law Tony Anziano and Sister-in-law Janice Wheeler; best friend Leonard Alexander; and many nieces, nephews, and dear friends.

Neil enjoyed traveling the country, golfing, watching baseball, and walking every day well into his 90s. He was a Civil War historian and visited many of its battle sites. He loved trains and the railroad.

His family would like to thank Hospice of the Berkshires and the staff of the Craneville Place Nursing Home for their compassionate care and family support.

Calling hours will be 10-11am on Saturday, May 3, at Firtion-Adams Funeral Home in Westfield, MA, with funeral service to follow.

Donations in Neil’s memory may be sent to The Chester Foundation, P.O. Box 743, Chester, MA 01011 or Hospice of the Berkshires, 877 South Street, Suite 1W, Pittsfield, MA 01201. www.firtionadams.com

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Services

Visitation
Saturday
May 3, 2025

10:00 AM to 11:00 AM
Firtion Adams Funeral Service
76 Broad Street
Westfield, MA 01085

Burial
Saturday
May 3, 2025

Norwich Bridge Cemetery, Huntington

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